Simplify Your
Family Life
By Chris Klein,
author, The Simpler Family
1. Make sure
the choices you make about your lifestyle
are truly yours.
Continually ask yourself:
Do I do things because they are truly important?
Is there an easier way?
Do I need to do it at all?
2. Look for ways to
spend more time at home, less time in the car.
We should relish the
idea of spending an entire weekend at home, instead
of doing everything we can to avoid it. Learn to
relax and enjoy “doing nothing”.
3. Limit after-school
activities.
Too many after-school activities disrupt dinnertime,
take the focus away from homework, and require too
many car trips for the student, the parent, and siblings.
Your children have a lifetime of enrichment opportunities.
It’s OK to say “no”.
4. Become better organized
in every aspect of your life.
Being unorganized wastes time and money.
A well-organized family spends less time on activities
that have little meaning (housework, shopping)
and more time on activities the family enjoys.
5. Establish a family
routine of giving daily thanks for what you have.
Doing so takes the focus away from wanting
more and helps everyone appreciate what they already
own.
6. When it comes to
entertainment, replace spending money with being
creative.
Don’t allow your children to depend
on you for entertainment. Encourage them, instead,
to use their creativity to entertain themselves.
7. When asked to get
involved in something that requires time away from
home, respond with “I need some time
to think about it”.
If it doesn’t fit your goal of a simpler lifestyle,
don’t do it.
8. Don’t allow
the telephone to control your time.
Do you really need to be available 24 hours
a day? Let the answering machine screen calls.
Use e-mail.
9. Encourage independence.
Instead of doing things for your children,
teach them how to do it.
10. Rework your day
to include more one-on-one with your children.
Keep the lines of communication open. Talk,
talk, talk. Listen, listen, listen.
“Life
is what’s happening while we are busy
making other plans.” - Unknown
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