Thursday September 02, 2010


#87 Title:

Stages of Motherhood

Special Guest: Ann Pleshette Murphy, Good Morning America's Contributor, Author, Speaker and Mom

Description:
Joining us is Ann Pleshette Murphy, Good Morning America’s Parenting Contributor and author of The 7 Stages of Motherhood: Loving Your Life without Losing Your Mind. Hear what she has to say about the challenges and opportunities mothers face at various stages in their motherly journey.

Duration: 43:54

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Podcast Index:
00:41 Intro: The 7 Stages of Motherhood
01:39 About Ann's Book
08:04 Mother's Today vs Long Ago
13:12 Find Lego Man's Hair
16:26 You're in the Wrong Movie!
19:45 Listener: Going Away to College
24:42 Listener: I Am My Mother
29:15 Share the Care
35:02 The Chore Wars
39:53 Closing Comments
42:02 Closing Track: I'll Be There


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About Ann Pleshette Murphy

Ann Pleshette Murphy is the parenting contributor for ABC TV’s Good Morning America (GMA). Since joining GMA in November 1998 over 250 “American Family” segments have aired before 5 million viewers. Ms. Murphy also hosts “Parenting Perspectives” on ABC News Now, a show that tackles issues facing parents today. She is an AOL Parent Coach and the parenting expert for Healthination.com.

Her other television credits include appearances on The Today Show, CBS This Morning, Regis & Kathie Lee, Weekend Today, Lifetime Live, The Montel Williams Show, The Rachael Ray Show and Oprah.

A well-known magazine journalist and editor, Ms. Pleshette Murphy was Editor-in-Chief of Parents magazine from 1988 to 1998 and a Contributing Editor from 1998 to 2002. She wrote a monthly Q and A column for Family Circle from 2002 to 2005. Currently, her ParentSmart column appears monthly in USA Weekend magazine.

Ms. Pleshette Murphy resides in New York City with her husband, Steven, CEO of Rodale, Inc. and their children, Madeleine and Nick. Read more here.

For more information please visit Ms. Pleshette Murphy's web site at www.annpleshettemurphy.com.



The Stages
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Stage 1: Altered States: Pregnancy, Birth, and the Fourth Trimester
Stage 2: Finding Your Footing, Finding Yourself:Months Four Through Twelve
Stage 3: Letting Go:The Toddler Years, One and Two
Stage 4: Trying to Do It All:The Preschool Years, Three to Six
Stage 5: Reading the Compass to God Knows Where:Years Six to Ten
Stage 6: Living in the Gray Zone:The Preteen Years, Ten to Thirteen
Stage 7: It Gets Easier and Then They Leave:The Teen Years, Thirteen to Eighteen 

Watch a video about the book here.

Description of Book:

The 7 Stages of Motherhood urges women to reflect on the seismic shifts they undergo at each stage of their children’s lives and to focus on their own evolution. Only by doing so, says Murphy, can we give children the best of ourselves. Each stage of motherhood has its own challenges and opportunities. Motherhood forces us to hone muscles we never knew we had; to question our choices and goals; to reshape our relationships with family, friends, our spouses; and, most important, to rethink who we are and where we’re going.

Drawing on hundreds of interviews with leaders in the field, a wealth of personal experience, a decade at the helm of Parents magazine, and, of course, countless conversations with other mothers, Murphy offers women invaluable advice about how to cope and how to thrive along with their children. She identifies periods of particular intensity in a mother’s life and provides indispensable tips about how to manage at each stage, from the roller-coaster ride of early childhood through the ambiguities of adolescence and the tumult of the teen years.

Also read: The Secret of Play

Guilt is endemic to motherhood. So is a tendency to take ourselves
for granted, to overlook the countless small acts of caring that
define our days as moms.
- Ann Pleshette Murphy



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The 7 Stages of Motherhood (Excerpt from Book)
Good Morning America's Parenting Expert Shares Intimate Lessons.

Love at First Sight -- Sometimes!
Whether or not you fall head over heels in love with your baby in the delivery room says absolutely nothing about your relative "goodness" as a mother. But your reaction to childbirth and to the intense emotions you experience provides important clues to your strengths and weaknesses, hot buttons and hidden talents. Read more . . . .



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The Stages Of Motherhood
Source: dayformothers.com

4 Years Of Age - My Mommy can do anything.
8 Years Of Age - My Mom knows a lot! A whole lot.
12 Years Of Age -My Mother doesn't really know quite everything.
14 Years Of Age -Naturally, Mother doesn't know that, either.
16 Years Of Age -Mother? She's hopelessly old-fashioned.
18 Years Of Age -That old woman? She's way out of date.
25 Years Of Age -Well, she might know a little bit about it.
35 Years Of Age -Before we decide, let's get Mom's opinion.
45 Years Of Age -Wonder what Mom would have thought about it.
65 Years Of Age -Wish, I could talk it over with Mom.


Jasmine graduates from preschool 2008.


... Motherhood rarely progresses in a predictable way. There’s as much circling, sliding, falling back as there is surging ahead to the next stage.
- Ann Pleshette Murphy