Thursday September 02, 2010


#163 Title:

Uncommon Parenting

Special Guest: Thomas Haller, radio show host, psychotherapist, author, television chief parenting correspondent, founder and director of the Healing Minds Institute, president of Personal Power Press, and an uncommon parent.

Description: We are taking an uncommon look at parenting, making a fundamental change to parent with enlightenment, to do conscious parenting, and to create the UNCOMMON PARENT for the NEW EARTH. Today Thomas dispels myths about discipline, puts an end to unwanted behavior (like whining and hitting), and helps parents empower children and create accountability.

Duration: 46:08

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Show Index:
00:30 Intro: Be Uncommon
03:46 What is Uncommon Parenting?
06:35 Let the Child Be the Teacher
12:02 Choices are Important
15:37 Listener: Do Less Telling
18:31 Accountability via a List
23:51 About Thomas Haller
26:30 Should Consequences be Severe?
33:41 Is Discipline Used to Gain Control?
34:51 Five Steps to End Unwanted Behavior
43:10 Closing Comments
44:53 Closing Track:
Jay Clifford

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About Thomas Haller
, MDiv., LMSW, ACSW, DST

With the top rated morning radio show in Mid-Michigan (102.5FM – WIOG) and being the chief parenting correspondent to an NBC affiliate (WEYI TV 25), Thomas Haller is a widely sought after speaker. He is a parenting and relationship expert, a co-author of five highly acclaimed books and a psychotherapist who has maintained a private practice as a child, adolescent and couples therapist; a sex therapist; and a chronic pain counselor for over eighteen years.

Thomas is considered one of the world’s foremost authorities on empowering individuals with effective verbal skills for creating interpersonal change and raising confident children. Thomas has extensive training in psychotherapy with children and couples from the University of Michigan where he received his Master of Social Work degree. He also is an ordained Lutheran minister with a Master of Divinity degree from Concordia Theological Seminary. He is a certified EEG biofeedback technician, an AASECT certified diplomate of sex therapy, and a certified sports counselor.

Thomas is also the founder and director of the Healing Minds Institute, a center devoted to teaching others to focus and enhance the health of the mind, body, and spirit. In addition he is president of Personal Power Press, Inc. a small publishing house devoted to providing parents and educators with practical material for building responsible children and he and wife, Valerie, maintain a not-for-profit 501-(c) (3) organization, Healing Acres, an equine retirement ranch for aged horses so they can live out their lives in a low stress atmosphere.

As a father of two boys, ages 12 and 8, Thomas succeeds at home first, purposefully creating a loving and committed family life using all the skills he writes and lectures about around the world. He more than writes and lectures about this material. He lives it every day.


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Helpful Parenting Resources

The 9 Myths to Effective Discipline
Parents look for books, articles, and parenting advice from others that will tell them exactly what they need to do to correct misbehavior. As they compile their stockpile of discipline strategies, little do they realize that these techniques are often filled with myths, misunderstandings, and misinterpretations. In this article, we attempt to help you sort through the most often believed discipline myths.

Stop Shoulding on Your Children
It’s usually possible to make a strong case that your child should have done something—or done something different—in a particular situation. So what? There is no point in laying blame for what “should have” been done but wasn’t. The useful question is not whether the “right” thing was done, but what action is appropriate given the current situation.

The Art of Allowing: Parent Control from the Inside Out
What if a controlling parenting style breeds resistance, resentment, and reluctance? You might want to examine a shared control style that often leaves the parent with more control than they had to begin with.

Grace-Full Parenting
Are the typical frustrations, annoyances, and irritations associated with parenting beginning to get you down? Are you feeling like you need a two week vacation from your children? If your answer to these questions is “yes,” you may need the gift of grace-full parenting.



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